SINGLE KEY FOR A CONFLICT FREE LIFE
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SATURDAY, 30TH MARCH, 2013
Today I will expand on dharma. The first step of dharma that integrity establishes in you is the state of advaita, supporting you to transform the reality of your life.
First I will define integrity, and I will expand on how integrity can lead you to higher and higher realities, and finally the highest reality.
Honoring the word you give to yourself and to others as your very life is integrity. Listen. Honoring the words you give to you - that is the key point. All of you already know about honoring the word you give to others, because society teaches you enough about it. Society constantly teaches you to honor the words you give to others, because it is directly related to society. But it never teaches you that the word you give to you is also equally important.
Listen: every thought you complete is the word you give to you. You have to honor it. It means that now you cannot have the thoughts of depression and suicide! You cannot entertain the thought of fear. Fear is nothing but smaller levels of suicide. You cannot entertain the thought of suicide, because if you entertain it, it is equivalent to the word you have given to you, and you have to fulfill it and honor it. You should not entertain the thought of suicide. You cannot entertain the thought of fear, because you are literally sitting under a kalpataru, a wish-fulfilling tree, all the time!
There is a beautiful story.
Once a traveler was resting under a tree in a forest, without knowing that the tree was a kalpataru. Suddenly he had a desire, ‘If somebody brings me some food now, how nice it will be! I am so hungry’. Immediately the food appeared before him! The man was overjoyed and happily ate the food. Then he thought, ‘If somebody gives me a cot, it will be so nice. I could lie down and sleep peacefully.’ Immediately a cot with a soft bed appeared! The man lay down happily on the cot to rest. Suddenly he had the thought, ‘Oh, God! Whatever I am thinking is happening! But it is getting dark now. What if a tiger suddenly appears and attacks me? What will happen?’ You know the rest of the story!
Understand, it is not only that man who was under a kalpataru! All of us are always under the kalpataru.

Listen! Every
thought you com-
plete is the word
you give to you.
You have to honor
it. You are liter-
ally sitting under
a kalpataru, a
wish-fulfilling
tree, all the time!
Every thought we give to ourselves will be honored if we don't complete it. Now I know that everyone has a fear – Oh, God! I have had so many negative thoughts. What to do?
Listen: there is nobody alive who has not entertained the thought of suicide at least once! All of us have fear. What do we do if all the words which we gave to ourselves now start getting fulfilled? You don't have to worry; you just have to complete them. Complete them one by one. Sit and declare to yourself consciously that you are not going to honor all the negative words you gave to yourself, and you are dropping them, completing them. Start creating the right inner software, the right inner space, by bringing integrity as the principle of life.
Integrity means not just fulfilling, but honoring the words you give to others. The first step of integrity is completing all the negative words you created within you about you and life, and completing all of them. Integrity starts with meditation, intranalyzing. Integrity starts with intranalyzing.
Only when you are complete, integrity starts. I tell you, just by completion you will learn so much conscious thinking. Intranalyzing, positive thinking, conscious thinking, breakthrough thinking - everything will happen the moment you bring integrity in you.
Now, you have to be aware of every word you utter to yourself. You just cannot allow the idea, 'Oh, I am not thinking, it's just happening, what can I do?' You can't afford to have this space. Practice completion, completion, completion and dropping! The first thing you will drop is self-hatred. You unconsciously carry so much self-hatred, which is what is responsible for constantly creating negative thoughts in you.
Even if you are healed of a disease, if you encourage the thought, 'It is going to come back, it is going to come back,' you are going to attract it back! Decide that you are not going to attract it, decide that it is not going to come back. And it will not come back, I assure you, I guarantee you - I have seen it in my life, I have experienced it in my life. Your thinking will have conscious training.
Sri Ramakrishna continuously recommends in his books that every person should retire from the regular activities at least for two or three days a month, or at least once in six months, and re-align himself towards the higher ideals.
I also strongly recommend this for all my followers and disciples. If you are in India, at least once in two months, and if you are outside India, at least once in six months, take three or four days off. Come and spend your time in the Bidadi ashram campus, re-aligning yourself to integrity. Here, you will see and hear the miracles happening just by integrity and authenticity.
Only when you see all these miracles with your eyes will you understand the power of integrity, the power of authenticity. Whatever is happening is the power of Dharma.
Buddha means, a person who has aligned with dharma. Sangha means, a group of people who
The first step of
integrity is com-
pleting all the
negative words
you created within
you about you and
life, and complet-
ing all of them.
Integrity starts
with meditation,
intranalyzing!
are aligning with dharma. But dharma is the center. Dharma is the center. It is the power of dharma. Once in a while, you have to retreat from the regular activities and align yourself to integrity, authenticity, responsibility and enriching. Aligning yourself to these great spiritual truths, dharma. Just by completion you will learn so much conscious thinking, positive thinking. Once in a while, once in two months, come spend time with Kalabhairava, sit with him, talk to him and complete all the incompletions. Restore your integrity, restore your authenticity, restore your responsibility and restore your enriching consciousness. Go with strength. Just by completion, you will learn so much of conscious thinking.
When you clean your inner space with the power of integrity, you will realize that all the contradictions, conflicts and confusions you carry are responsible for your whole life, for all your actions, for all the reactions you attract from others and for all the happenings of your life. You are responsible for all your actions, the reactions you attract from others and the happenings of life. Integrity will automatically teach you responsibility. You will understand that for everything happening in and around you, you are responsible.
Integrity is the first lesson of spiritual life. Integrity is not just a simple vow, a simple word or a simple thing. Integrity is all about ironing out your thinking, aligning your thinking. If you bring integrity to your inner space, you will realize that even accidents are attracted by you. You are attracting everything in your life, whether it is wealth or poverty, right or wrong. You are responsible for your life.
When you start living integrity, you will suddenly see that so many truths are revealed to you, so many understandings happen to you, so many alignments happen in you. As of now, your mind is like the pieces of a jigsaw puzzle tied in a gunny bag! Integrity will align all those pieces and make it a proper drawing. When you bring integrity, you bring dance to your inner being. Dance brings a certain rhythm to your body. Integrity brings the same alignment to your thinking. The grace of a Bharatanatyam dance is brought to your thinking by integrity.
You have to start with completion with yourself. I am not giving you a spiritual principle which is some impractical theory from some book. NO. NO. It is a direct practical lifestyle! You need to have it as your lifestyle. Start the completion with you. You will see so much junk in you coming out. You will see that you are becoming such a powerful clearance, with such clarity; the pure consciousness. You will see that pratyagaatma chaitanya jagrata happens in you. Inner Awakening happens in you.
It is so difficult for an ordinary human being to believe that he can be in completion. I tell you from my own experience, you can be in completion. Completion can be your inner space. Being in the state of fulfillment is possible. It is possible. Integrity starts when you are in the state of completion. Then you will naturally start honoring every word you give to others also.
You are respon-
sible for all your
actions, the reac-
tions you attract
from others and
the happenings
of life. Integrity
will automati-
cally teach you
responsibility!
When you complete continuously, you will suddenly see that so much inner space is available for you to create new things, new happenings, new incidents around you. You will start attracting new things.
Integrity is such an important value in life; it is such an important dharma in life. It directly aligns you with the dharma of the universe, the dharma with which cosmos is functioning. Only when you bring yourself to integrity, you will be able to understand the dharma with which the cosmic constitution and cosmic law is operating.
You will have answers for hundreds or thousands of questions which you have about life - why there is so much poverty, why there is a gap between the haves and have-nots, why you are what you are, why the creation is the way it is - everything! For everything, you will have an answer.
Integrity is the first step for inner awakening to happen to you. You will realize the conflict-free, contradiction-free, confusion-free lifestyle happening in you. Integrity with yourself is the first principle of the cosmos. In the cosmos, constitutional rights and the cosmic law are both one and the same. In the cosmos, your rights and your responsibilities are both one and the same. They are not two different things. Integrity is your right and your responsibility.
In every country, there are some rights given to you through the constitution, and there are some laws that control you. In the cosmos, rights and responsibility are both one and the same. In the constitution of a country, your rights are given to you through the constitution, and your responsibilities are reminded to you through laws. But in the cosmos, your rights and responsibilities are both one and the same. Vidhi-nishedha, dos and don'ts, both are one and the same. In the cosmic constitution, integrity is the first declaration. It is your birthright and your responsibility, both. The first right you are given by the cosmic constitution, and the first responsibility you are asked to take by the cosmic law, is integrity.
Bring integrity. When you align the words you give to you, you will become so conscious, so aware of what you are thinking every moment. Automatically, all the awareness meditation techniques, self-remembrance techniques, everything will happen just by integrity. Ramana Maharshi's atma vichara (contemplation on self), Buddha's vipassana (witnessing), Sri Ramakrishna's atma samarpana (surrender), everything will happen if you just bring integrity to your inner space. The breakthrough thinking will happen in you.
Bring integrity to your inner space by doing swapoornatva kriya, completing with yourself; completing and dropping all the negative patterns you created in you which you feel as part of you, and creating a complete you. Out of that complete you, whatever you project to the outer world, you will experience that without conflict; because when there is no inner conflict, there will not be outer conflict.
Not having inner conflict, and because of that,

Integrity is the
first step for inner
awakening to
happen to you.
You will realize
the conflict-free,
contradiction-free,
confusion-free
lifestyle hap-
pening in you!
not having outer conflict, is advaita (non-duality). That is shuddha advaita (pure non-duality), Shiva advaita.
Let you all achieve, experience, live, express, radiate, share, explode and enrich with eternal bliss, Nithyananda. Thank you!

Listen! When you align yourself to integrity, you suddenly become one being. When you are one being, the reality you want, the reality you need and the highest Reality - all become one and the same. You will see that when you experience integrity in you, the whole world cooperates with you!