Do You Really Know What You Want?🔗

Sunday, 31st march, 2013

Today, I will expand about the nature of Reality.

When you don't have integrity, the life you want to have around you will change hour by hour. In the morning you will have one idea of a certain kind of life, at noon you will have a different idea and the next morning you will have some other idea about the life you want.

The reality you want to be in, the reality you need to be in and the highest Reality are all different realities. You will be just pushing and pulling and fighting. Please listen: finally, any fight is defeat. Any fight is defeat for all the parties involved in the fighting. Any reconciliation is victory for all the parties involved in the reconciliation.

Listen to these two statements. Any fighting is loss for all parties involved in the fight. Any reconciliation is good for all the parties involved in the reconciliation. If there is a fight between you and you, it is because of your lack of integrity. Sometimes I have seen ten people living inside one body! Listen! I tell you from my experience, sometimes one large-size joint family lives inside one body! So much chaos, so much chaos, so much confusion! How will you find peace?

You need to know, forgetting happens because of lack of integrity. If one person takes over the other person inside you, you forget what the first person was thinking. How many of you are able to cognize this truth? You are an entire group living inside one body! So when I ask your name, you should say your name and add the words – '& Group'! Who are you? Raman & Group! Because you are not one person; you are a group of people living inside one body.

Another problem is, when a group of people live inside your body, all of them need to share your body. One person owns your hand, one person owns your leg, one person owns your brain and one person owns your heart. So even though there are so many people, all of them are handicapped, because nobody owns the whole.

Tell me, can 20 handicapped people put together perform one healthy person's work? And here, only one person owns the brain. All the other 19 do not have a brain! And the fellow who owns the brain does not have a heart, and the fellow who

owns the heart does not have a hand. What will you be fit for?

That is why I am telling you to complete with yourself and align yourself to integrity. When you align yourself to integrity, suddenly you become one being. When you are one being, the reality you want, the reality you need and the highest Reality, all three become one and the same.

Listen! Once you integrate yourself, whatever you want to achieve, you will be able to just declare and do it. You just declare and do it. You will see, when you experience integrity in you, the whole world cooperates with you.

When you maintain integrity with you, your own confidence in you increases. When you maintain integrity with others, others' confidence in you increases. When you have confidence in you, you will realize that you are the ultimate Doer, you are the cause of Reality.

When you bring integrity into your thinking, you become aware of every anxiety you go through, every fear you go through, every forgetfulness you go through; you see how you are responsible for creating negativity in your life, you see how you are anxious to create negativity in your life, and you also see how you can align yourself with yourself, and the world can just align itself with you.

With lack of integrity, there is such a huge confusion. You do not know what goes on inside you and outside you. Sometimes, you even forget what you really want. Sometimes, just to prove that you are right, you destroy your life. I have seen human beings destroy their whole life just to prove they are right. They lose their whole life. It is so dangerous, so dangerous.

It is so sad that many times, human beings do not know what they really want. Their lack of integrity makes them forget what they want. Please listen, when you lack integrity, you even forget what you actually want. After two days, you don't know what you wanted! You can have the life of not having what you want. Even that can be forgiven. But you can't have the life of not knowing what you want! Not having what you want is only poverty. Not knowing what you want is just 'horror-ty'! I am giving a new word. Not having what you want is just being poor. Not knowing what you want is being in the state of terror, horror!

Integrity is not just ethics. It is your constitutional right and your first responsibility! What you can do is your right. What you can't do is the law. Just like a country's constitution has some vidhi-nishedha, dos and don'ts, in the cosmic constitution, you have some rights and you have some responsibilities. Here, integrity is your right and your responsibility. It is not just your responsibility, it is your right! If you understand how much integrity adds to you, if you experience the powers given to you when you live integrity, if you understand about all the things you can achieve with integrity, then you will realize that integrity is not just your responsibility, it is your right!

When you feel integrity is your responsibility, you are in the zone of practice; you are a seeker.

When you understand integrity is your right, you are in the zone of enlightenment!

Whatever you want to achieve, declare that to yourself and do it. When you bring integrity in you, you become aware of all the anxiety you go through, every fear you go through, every forgetfulness you go through. And you will also know how you can align yourself with yourself, and how the world can align with you.

Listen! Many times, if you are afraid of your spouse, you go through the same fear even when you are handling someone in your business. You are afraid of your spouse in the house, because, for anything you do in the house, there will be a fight. So when that becomes a pattern in you, you start believing that you can achieve anything only after a lot of struggle, fight and suffering.

When you start with that mood, even in your business you can't make any decisions. Whenever you think of something new and creative, immediately you remember the same fear and anxiety which you have to go through with your spouse - without even remembering the spouse! Listen: if you remember your spouse, at least you know that it is only with him or her that you need to fight! In your business, there is nobody to fight with you. But the pattern has become so unconscious that you carry the same fear into your profession and business, and you don't make any major decisions.

I will move to the next step on integrity. Just imagine, if everybody around you is integrated with you, if they are very transparent and speak only the truth as it is, how your life will become! It will become heaven! I tell you from my experience, I don't know about others, but for me it will become heaven, Kailasha!

Everybody wants that life. So when you want that life, why don't you want to give that life to others? You think, 'No, no, I will make everyone integrated, but I will keep my cunning way of planning and doing what I want, and I will keep my own independent, decision-making, strategy-planning lifestyle for me! I will make everyone stable, but I will continue to retain my instability! It is like building the world's tallest building on a sand-bed, without a foundation! What is the use?

An organization's integrity is dependent on their marketing agents and product delivery. An individual's integrity is dependent on his ahankara and mamakara, how you project yourself and what you feel yourself to be.

I tell you: whatever you create for others, only that will be created for you. Whatever you create for others will be created for you. When you start living integrity, you will become sensitive to all the confusion and suffering you had caused to others because of your lack of integrity. Only when you start living integrity, you will become sensitive to it. You will become intelligent to it.

Only with integrity will you feel you are a man. Otherwise, the truth you know about yourself kills you, even if others don't torture you. If you are living with lack of integrity, the truth you know about you is enough punishment! You don't need

a separate hell! The truth you know about you is powerful enough to kill you.

There are some things in life whose benefits you can understand only when you start living them. Before that, no word can explain its benefits to you. When you bring integrity with others, you reclaim life itself. When you bring integrity with you, you reclaim Consciousness and Soul.

George Gurdjieff was one of the greatest spiritual masters of the 20th century. Gurdjieff says beautifully, ‘You don’t have a soul, you have to build it! Being an advaiti (proponent of the philosophy of non-duality), I accept this statement! When you can’t experience it, it is equivalent to not having it. See, if you work and earn enough money, you can have your own private jet one day. But today you don’t have one. It means that today you DON’T have it, that’s all! You can’t say, ‘Any day I can work and have it, so it is with me after all.’ No. Now it is not there! I tell you, with integrity, you have to earn it.

There are some things in life that you have to live, taste experience. I can never describe in words the thousands of benefits which integrity can bring. A completely new life can be brought to you by integrity and authenticity, responsibility and enriching.

Whether it is with other human beings, or with yourself, or with God, or with your ishta devata (chosen deity), only when you bring integrity, the relationship starts. Whether it is God or guru or your relatives or friends, the relationship starts only when you bring integrity, not before!

All the boons you want to receive from God can be received only when you maintain the bridge of integrity, not otherwise! All the blessings you want to receive from your guru can be received only when you maintain the bridge of integrity, not otherwise! Otherwise it is impossible.

When you declare your completion and integrity, all boons are showered on you. All blessings are showered on you. Consciousness happens to you, soul happens to you, and Life happens to you.

Let you all achieve, experience, live, express, radiate, share, explode and enrich with eternal bliss, Nithyananda. Thank you!

The space of expansion is what makes expanding possible. Continuously expanding you without any limit is universal life!