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Unfulfillment - Lessons 1 to 3

INTRODUCTION

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By our very nature we seek fulfillment in anything we do. What comes in the way is our decision to not be fulfilled. Then what is the solution?. The straight forward decision is, our decision to Be Fulfilled in the present moment. That simple! Yes That simple. Then now what comes in the way of us not willing to take that decision?. That's what we are going to understanding now.

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If we are able to truly manage
our mind with the understanding
that it is our mind that connects
thoughts to form shafts of pain
and pleasure and if we stay
unclutched, we can stay in what
Buddha calls mindfulness. We
can stay in awareness and in the
present moment. This is the state
of Fulfillment.

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If we are able to truly manage our mind with the understanding that it is our mind that connects thoughts to form shafts of pain and pleasure and if we stay unclutched, we can stay in what Buddha calls mindfulness. We can stay in awareness and in the present moment. This is the state of Fulfillment.

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ACT WITHOUT FEAR & DESIRE

It is our thought process that constantly takes us from past to future and back again and does not allow us to rest in the present moment. Understand this clearly, when we are in the present moment we can stay out of trouble without fear and desire. We can act without fear and desire. You may ask how?

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How can I be motivated to do
something if I do not desire it? There
is no need for motivation. Do you
think that it is motivation that makes
you breathe or digest your food? It is
the intelligence of the energy that is
within and without us that makes it
possible for us to live and grow. We
live not because of us but inspite of
us. When we act without attachment,
there is no consequence to our
actions, there is no karma arising
from our actions.

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WHAT IS KARMA

There is a very beautiful verse in the Isavasya Upanishad

Om poornamadah poornamidam Poornaat
poornamudachyate Poornasya poornamaadaaya
Poornamevaavashishyate

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From the Whole came the Whole. If you remove the Whole from the Whole, only the Whole remains. By very nature we seek the Wholeness. By very nature we seek fulfillment in anything we do.

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Whether it is eating, drinking,
jumping, reading, talking, sleeping,
or meditating, in any activity that we
engage, our being yearns to
completely experience the activity
and be fully involved in it. Are we
fully conscious of every action we
engage in? Are we aware every
moment of our lives?

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Anything that we do and
experience intensely and deeply
will always leave our system. It
will liberate us. Any experience
that we did not go through
completely, through which we
did not have complete
fulfillment, that did not get our
full energy, attention and
awareness, remains inside us as
karma.

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GOALS

To make the children
understand about the topic
of fulfillment.

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ASSESSMENT

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  • When we can stay in mindfulness?
  • Which understanding leads to mindfulness? When we can stay in awareness?
  • What takes us from past to future?
  • What happens when we act without attachment?
  • What happens to do the unfulfilled experience?
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CONCLUSION

When we act without
attachment, there is no
consequence to our actions.
When there is no
consequence to our actions
we remain in the state of
Fulfillment. This is what
Lord Krishna means when
He says ,

Karmanevarikarasthe Ma
Phaleshu Kadachana Do
Your work or Action.
without expectation of
results.

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Illustration of an artist's easel, paints, and brushes

ART OF THE DAY

ART OF THE DAY

BUILDING STRUCTURES USING iCE CREAM STiCKS

MATERIALS NEEDED:

  • Ice cream/popsicle sticks, glue, paper

EXPLANATION:

Give enough ice cream sticks for everybody. Ask them to stick the ice cream sticks with glue on the paper and make nice structures of their choice.

INFERENCE:

Connect them to the fact when we have the mind which get satisfied with whatever we have we can be in bliss.

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Sri Nithyananda Paramashivam
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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

BLOW BEADS GAME

MATERIALS NEEDED:

Beads

EXPLANATION

Encourage children to sit at
the table, keep enough beads
on the table and ask each
child to blow with the mouth.
Now each child must pick the
beads using their hand
without touching the other
beads while removing the
beads if the bead touches
other beads their turn is over.

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

BLOW BEADS GAME

INFERENCE
This activity needs lots of
focus, attention and patience.
When we are in the now with
clear understanding we can
be fulfilled.

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A young deity figure seated on a silver ornate throne
Nithyananda small portrait
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THE PRESENT iS THE TOTALiTY OF ALL PAST DECisiONS

This is the essence of karma theory: The totality of all your past is the present, and the totality of your present is your future.

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INTRODUCTION

The problem is that we make most of our decisions unconsciously. We take thousands of decisions unconsciously. That is the reason why we are not able to connect the cause with the effect. Flood more awareness, more intelligence into your thinking system. Flood more awareness, more consciousness into your decision-making system.

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In any given moment, the future
is predestined but conditionally.
It will be a certain future
according to all the totality of
events till that time, this is the
predestined future. But it is
conditional. There is an
important factor that can and
will change it, it is your
consciousness, your will.
Understand, destiny is not
something written in stone. It
very much depends on how you
choose to respond to every
situation life presents to you.
Your awareness will give you the
intelligence and the courage to
change the flow of events in your
life.

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Portrait of Nithyananda Paramashivam
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GOALS

To make the children
understand about that the
present is the totality of all
past decisions.

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ASSESSMENT

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  • What comprises our present moment?
  • What comprises of our future moment?
  • How we make most of our decisions?
  • What happens when we take decisions unconsciously?
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ASSESSMENT

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  • Which is the best way to connect the cause and effect of our thoughts?
  • Our future is pre destined.
  • Whether it is true or false?
  • Can we alter our pre destined future?
  • Which will give us the courage to change the flow of events in our life?
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CONCLUSION

Transform
your destiny
with
Awareness
and
Intelligence.

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ART OF THE DAY

ART OF THE DAY

DRAW A CLOCK WHICH RUNS BACKWARD

MATERIALS NEEDED

▪ Paper, Pencil (or) Pen (or) Sketch

EXPLANATION:

Encourage children to draw the picture of the clock with numbers written opposite order as that of a normal clock. Instead of writing 12, 1, 2, 3 – --- write 12, 11, 10, 9 etc.

INFERENCE:

It is the thought which takes us to the past and future and vice versa when we live in the present and in the now we can live without fear or greed.

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

WHAT YOU REALLY WANT

GOALS:
To make the child understand
about unfulfilled desire,
clearly about want and need.

PREPARATION:
Give each child the pencil or
pen and paper and ask them
to write a list of things they
wish to have. Repeat it again
after 10 days.

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

WHAT YOU REALLY WANT

PRESENTATION

Give each child a pencil or pen
and paper and ask them to write
a list of things they wish to have
and ask them to write it in an
order. They can also draw
pictures of things if they wish to.
Collect the paper from the
children with their names and
date written clearly. Repeat the
same exercise again after 10 days
and ask them to write the same
list in other paper. Ask them to
compare the 1st day list with the
list of that of 10th day.

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

WHAT YOU REALLY WANT

Let the children tell whether
they have written the same
things in the same order in
both the list or their list vary.
If their both the lists are same,
then what they wish to have
is a need. If their both the
lists are different the things
that they wished to have are
only wants which changes
from time to time and
situation to situation.

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

WHAT YOU REALLY WANT

INTERPRETATION
Make the children
understand the
difference between
the want and the
need. Whether the
wishes are wants or
needs

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A young boy in deep meditation depicted as a young ascetic or yogi with jata, vibhuti, and rudraksha beads seated against an ornate silver background
Nithyananda small circular portrait
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TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR LIFE CHOICES

Everything in life is a choice you make

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INTRODUCTION

If you don’t know your past completely, you will repeat the same things in the future. If your Thoughts Per Second (TPS) can come down and you know your past as it happened, you won’t repeat the same past in the future. You will then become a karma mukta, liberated from karma. As of now you are a karma bandha, bonded to karma because you have not lived your past completely. Your life is nothing but the totality of the conscious choices that you continuously make. Whether you believe it or not, directly or indirectly, you are choosing everything in your life.

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No one else chooses for you in your
life. It is you who makes the choice.
Continuously, it is only your choice,
your decision. You may think that
somebody else decides your life. No!
It is only you who is deciding all the
time. Somebody criticizes or insults
you and you choose to get offended.
If somebody praises you, you choose
to get flattered. Because of your habit,
you choose this response
unconsciously. Does someone else
choose this for you? It is purely your
choice. Because it has become a habit,
you have forgotten that you are
choosing. It is you who choose how
to respond, what decisions to make.
But you try to fool yourself and others
into believing it is someone else who
is responsible, who is making you do
things their way.

You can decide to respond differently. For example, when someone criticizes you, you can choose not to get offended. You can choose to remain calm, relaxed and collected. It is your choice to feel offended. We always think we have been given unfair results.

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COLLECTING KARMA THROUGH UNCONSCIOUS LIVING

This is because we are not able to connect the cause and the effect of many of the things that happen in our lives. We are blissfully unaware that we are the ones who caused the effects. We made it happen by way of unconscious living and ended up collecting more karma.

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GOALS

To make the children
understand about the TPS
and gap in thought and
about the totality of our
choices and cause them to
take responsibility for their
life choices.

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ASSESSMENT

Pencil and paper
  • What is TPS?
  • When is TPS zero?
  • What is kshana?
  • Is kshana equal for all people?
  • How will the kshana be when a person is restless?
  • How will the kshana be when a person is calm?
  • What do our action consists of?
  • Who makes a choice in your life?
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ART OF THE DAY

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ART OF THE DAY

TOUCH AND FEEL ART

MATERIALS NEEDED

  • Pen (or) Pencil, Paper (or) Sketch, Block or any figure or statue

EXPLANATION:

Encourage children to touch the given block, figure or statue with eyes closed and draw the image with eyes open. Draw the picture on the paper with pencil or sketch or pen.

INFERENCE:

When we are in present, in now we can exactly replicate the statue in pictorial form. When we are in now we will be fulfilled in whatever we do.

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Sri Nithyananda Paramashivam seated in traditional attire
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ACTIVITY

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

WOODEN CHIPS

This illustrates how we relate
things, how thoughts affect
one another causing a ripple
effect.

MATERIALS NEEDED: Wooden chips or dominoes.

ACTIVITY:
Arranging wooden chips and
seeing the domino effect of
all of them falling down
when one of the chip is
pushed.

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

WOODEN CHIPS

PRESENTATION:
Gather the class and discuss how the
material relates to the topic. The
wooden chips or dominoes are like
thoughts, when we stack them up
they are all related like the thoughts
in our minds. Arrange the chips
close together and discuss how
when one thought is there, we
should only think of that one
thought, let it go and then go on to
the next thought. Give each child a
stack to arrange, and let them
trigger the first one and watch them
all fall.

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

WOODEN CHIPS

VARIATION:

Our ego is affected by every
emotion, anger, sadness, over
excitement, everything. If we
are in bliss we will be in
peace and joy. A variation of
this activity can be that when
ego comes in, each thing is
like a trigger that goes on and
pushes other chips causing
them all to fall.

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ACTIVITY OF THE DAY

WOODEN CHIPS

CONCLUSION

This activity needs lots of
focus, attention and patience.
When we are in the now with
clear understanding we can
be fulfilled.

Pencil writing on note papers
Portrait of young Nithyananda Paramashivam
Hand holding a ceremonial staff with an emblem of Paramashiva

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