Go Beyond Boredom And Tiredness
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Thursday, 28th March 2013
Today, I will continue to expand on the fourth principle of life - enriching and how it expands your wealth.
The first statement I want to make is this - enriching takes away your tiredness and boredom. With enriching, the important principle of not giving upon on you and not giving upon others becomes a lifestyle in you. Listen, not giving up on you and not giving up on others becomes a lifestyle in you when you decide to enrich.
You need to know, when you decide to enrich yourself and others, first, the fatigue and tiredness which you've given yourself and others disappear from your being. This is the important vow for the sannyasi. The danda, the staff that I carry, is not giving up on oneself and others. Authenticity is rudraksha ornament. Not giving up on others and yourself is the danda, the staff you carry. Don't give up on others and yourself. Constantly enriching yourself and inspiring yourself again and again every day opens up the possibility for transformation.
I tell you, when you decide to enrich others, life just pours and showers itself on you. I have seen it in my life. The moment you decide that your life is for others, there is a big shift in the way you think, the way you act and the way you live, even if you are continuing the same business. The way you work is different, your response is different, and above all, your profits are higher.
Enriching is you taking responsibility with integrity and authenticity, that you are committed to continuously enriching, which is expanding yourself and others in and around you. Enriching takes away your tiredness and boredom.
When you live these four principles in your very cognition, the very cognition where the instruction for expansion or contraction is given expands. Listen! These four principles directly work on your software, your inner software. Your inner software is your mind. These four principles expand the very possibility of the inner software. When you bring these four principles in your life, it is literally like writing new software. I tell you, you create the reality of your choice. You create the reality of your choice. I tell you, when you decide to enrich yourself and others, even in your own business, you will feel that life is fresh. It will not be boring, it will not be tiring. Please listen! When you are bored, whatever you do to cover the boredom, the tiredness makes others tired and bored of you.
Please listen. When you are tired of you and bored with you, anything you try to do to cover your boredom about you, bores others and brings boredom to others!
Listen! Do you see that people in your life are bored of spending time with you? Are people bored with you and nobody wants to spend time with you?. How many of you feel that people are bored with you and nobody wants to spend time with you? People want to move out of your space, immediately or after some time! How many of you cognize people are bored with you? Then you must be bored with you! You must be bored with you.
Anything you try
to do to cover your
boredom about
you, bores others
and brings bore-
dom to others!
Because you are bored with you, people will still be bored with you, with whatever you do to cover up your boredom. Many times, people are bored with you. But they don't directly tell you, because you will start screaming at them. So they will start moving away politely using some other reason. If ninety percent of the people do not interact with you as friends and people who love you, then I can tell you that you are bored with you and people are also bored with you. They just don't tell you because you will scream at them. If ninety percent of the people whom you interact with love you, if they are your friends, if they love to spend time around you, then I can say that you are not bored with yourself.
When others don't get bored with you, it is joy. When you don't get bored with you, it is bliss! But if you are bored with you, or if you are with somebody with whom you are bored, your life must be worry!
Only with the principle of enriching can any marriage be successful for more than one week. The boredom starts in one week. If it is an arranged marriage, then the boredom starts in one week. If it is love, you decide to get married after the boredom starts! Please listen. If it is an arranged marriage, it is by the first week that boredom starts. If it is a love marriage, only after you feel bored and not before, that you will decide to get married. Otherwise why will you get married? No, only when you feel bored with the other person, are you afraid he may also be feeling bored with you. You now need a security knot.
As long as you have not experienced boredom with the other person, you will not feel insecure that the other person is also experiencing boredom with you. Only after the boredom starts, which means when he is not opening the purse as much as he used to, and she is not opening the mouth as much as she used to smile, the fear that the other maybe feeling bored settles in you. Only when you feel insecure that the other may be feeling bored of you now, you decide to tie the knot of marriage.
Most of the time, marriage is just a confirmation, a lifelong insurance, a guarantee you give each other that you will love each other. Please understand, I am not against marriage, but I am against the marriage of incompletions. I really want to create a matrimonial website where these basic principles of marriage will be taught to people. They should decide to marry only after they learn the principles. After learning the principles, if you decide when you want to marry, it will bring a stable family. When you don't know the principles, the marriage itself may be out of boredom or feeling insecure. Many times in your love, when you are feeling bored or when you are afraid the other person may start feeling bored, you decide to get married for the sake of security!
Each time, when I ask you to sit in unclutching or in nirvikalpa samadhi, you need to be in completion with yourself and you need to conquer the boredom about you and the tired feeling of you. Only when you conquer the boredom and tiredness, can you sit in nirvikalpa samadhi. Otherwise, the moment you sit and close your eyes, either you are off somewhere or asleep. Either you are off somewhere or asleep. Either you are off somewhere or switched off. Either you slip away or sleep away.
Slipping away is out of boredom and sleeping away is out of tiredness. These two are the enemies of life. Boredom and tiredness can be life-imprisonment. It can just stay inside you and stop you doing anything new in your life. The highest level of boredom happens in people who are constantly working with the mind, without these four principles. That is why there is so much suicide in the field of psychology and psychiatry. I tell all my followers and youth, either become an MBBS doctor or a psychologist. I tell them to chose one between these two. If they are my sannyasis, I tell them to take up psychology, because I want to revive this field. With that field, these four principles can enlighten the whole world. Without these four principles, I tell you, there will be the largest number of suicides in just these two fields. The percentage of suicides will always be the largest in these fields, because this is the field where the people are working constantly with the mind.

Slipping away is
out of boredom
and sleeping away
is out of tiredness.
These two are the
enemies of life.
Listen! For a person who makes pots, who works with mud, no matter how much he cleans his hands, there will naturally be a little mud settling inside his nails. If somebody is working in the charcoal godown, no matter how many baths he takes, there will be a little charcoal sitting in his hair. In the same way, for people who work with the mind without these four principles as the basis for their cognition, no matter how much they try, they will have tiredness and boredom inside them. This is their own and inherited, which they accumulated from others!
I am really telling you that because of these four principles, I saved myself. Otherwise my devotees would have made me mad long ago! I tell you, I cannot imagine how you work so much to destroy yourself. I have seen some people, they want to disprove me; they only want to prove that what I am teaching is wrong. For that sake they are ready to put themselves into tiredness, boredom, depression, anything, and destroy themselves! Sometimes, I ask people, ‘Hey, there is such a simple solution for solving the problem. Why don’t you solve it?’ They say, ‘I am not interested in all these principles.’
Because, of the anger they carry towards everything around them, their first priority is to prove that everybody is wrong. They are not interested in the solution; they are interested in proving everybody wrong. Why do you think psychiatrists continuously kill themselves? Psychiatrists kill themselves because they are continuously working with the mind; they don’t know how to remove the tiredness and boredom from themselves, and the tiredness and boredom from others.
I know, lawyers can easily get enlightened, because they know how logic can be used, misused and abused. A successful lawyer knows how to convince the court or confuse the court. Convince the court if you can; if you can’t, just confuse the court. You win the game. How to use logic to use, misuse and abuse! Understand, when you catch the truth, you will easily understand how to go beyond logic. You can become enlightened. You can become enlightened. Psychiatrists, I just wanted you to know the truth. If I can revive and revolutionize the spiritual psychology which was practiced by the raja Gurus, the brahmins of the Vedic age, I will feel that I fulfilled the mission for which I assumed the body.
Listen! If I revive the spiritual psychology practiced by rishis, brahmanas, rajaGurus, I will feel I have achieved my life's mission. That's the reason I tell all my kids, all the krama brahmacharis, to study psychology.
Understand, you are going to be studying psychology only. Get ready. I think Gurukul should get the psychology syllabus and start teaching it for all the krama brahmacharis from now on.
Instead of wasting time with information which is not useful – like, 'Who won the Panipat war?' What is he going to do with it? Do any of you even remember now? But every one of us studied this. Do you know who is going to win the war happening in your house? If you learn that, at least it's useful for your future!
Our education has become completely unnecessary with outdated information. This happened in my

When you catch
the truth, you
will easily under-
stand how to go
beyond logic.
life. I studied very little! I was studying for a diploma in mechanical engineering. I was supposed to be studying the subject of Machine shop engineering. I went to the workshop and they showed me a very costly machine. It's called MNC, multi- numerical computerized machine or something. They showed me MNC. Then I asked the professor: 'Sir, if I learn to work with this machine, will I get a job? Will I have the same kind of machine, sir?' He said, 'No, no, no. This is outdated , thirty years ago.' Now many modern machines have come since them. You will not be able to see any of these machines in any workshop. This is outdated since thirty years ago.'
Then I asked him, 'Why are we still keeping this in our syllabus?' He said, 'Usually, our syllabus in polytechnics and engineering colleges is thirty years outdated syllabus and subjects. In the last thirty years, we have not upgraded or updated our syllabus.' I said, 'Oh God, even if I study this, when I go out, it is not going to be useful in anyway, either for a job, or for life.' He said, 'No'. From that day, I stopped going to the machine shop. I said, 'Why should I go? What am I learning here that is going to be useful.' They said, 'No, it is like a base, a foundation. After you go out, you go to an industry. They will give you the training as to what you should do.' I said, 'It's better if I directly take the training there.'
That is why our Indian education system is a complete failure in every line! Listen, in every line, the maximum we produce is clerks. The Indian mind is a genius mind. Close to thirty four percent of NASA scientists are Indians. In the US, Indians are ruling in the field of psychology, psychiatry and medicine. The Hospital and hospitality industry of the US is completely in the hands of the Indians. The hotels and motels are literally in the hands of Indians. But unfortunately, one of the most untapped resources in India is the power of youth, the youth power!
Youngsters are never allowed to think, by their colleges and universities, and the syllabus taught to them is the embodiment of boredom and tiredness!
When a child happens, he is so enthusiastic about everything. He wants to learn everything. The other day, my Gurukul Principal was reporting to me, 'Swamiji, the kids are learning anything and everything. Somebody is learning the piano, somebody is learning the flute and somebody is learning the tabla. They are learning anything and everything. Somebody is learning the veena. I tell you, this is what life is! Enthusiasm is such that anything seen is grasped. Eye means, anything seen should be grasped. Ears means, anything heard should be repeated. Hand means, anything shown, you should be able to recreate it. I tell you this from my experience.
My life has been steeped in temples, dressing the deities, worship in the religious dressings and the religious jewelry. I tell you, it has given me this ability - I can create anything I can see. I don't need to learn to stitch this curtain. I don't need to learn to weld this bar. I don't need to learn to operate this TV. I don't need to learn to carve this lion. Fortunately, when I was young, I was brought up in the ambience of temples, where I have seen all these so much. By seeing, seeing, and seeing, my hand can create anything that is seen. That is creativity!
Enthusiasm is
such that anything
seen is grasped.
That is life!
Please listen, anything you see, you should grasp it. Anything you listen to, you should be able to repeat it. Kids are born with so much enthusiasm, but unfortunately the so-called education and books make them completely tired and bored of life. Anything which brings tiredness and boredom in your life is poison!
Let your principles of reviving you be enriching you and enriching others and not just zeroes in your bank balance. Every day, it is the zeroes in your bank balance or the jealousy with your competitors that is making you run. You will be sick and tired. If it is the principle of enriching you and enriching others that makes you run, I tell you, it is eternal fuel. You are like a solar-equipped vehicle. If it is jealousy and greed that make you run, you're running on petrol. You may dry out any day, your car will not move and you are working on a non-renewable energy source.
If you are functioning out of this principle, if the principle of enriching yourself and enriching others is the fuel for you, I tell you, you are working on a renewable life source, on a renewable energy source. You are like a car that runs on solar power. You will never stop. You will run forever.
Make yourself run with renewable energy sources. That is good for you and the world!
I bless you all, to achieve, experience, live, express, radiate, share, explode and enrich with eternal bliss – 'Nithyananda'! Thank you!
Listen! Leaders are created with the DNA of responsibility. Take responsibility not only for everything. Only when you feel and decide that ‘you’ are responsible, you will look in that direction and solve the problem!