Do You Really Love Yourself?🔗

I welcome you all with my love and respects. Today, I'll expand on how the principles of life and enriching can be used, to expand your relationship with yourself and with others.

Listen! These four principles are not my teachings, these four are THE teachings. If human beings need to learn anything on the planet earth, these four principles are the first, middle and last of it. Listen! These four principles are not my teachings, they are THE teachings. These four are the essence of all religions, spiritual groups, philosophies, sects, cultures and the essence of psychology. These four principles are THE teachings: integrity, authenticity, responsibility and enriching!

Today, I'll expand on how the fourth principle, 'enriching' can empower you in the zone of relationships. If you are feeling powerless in your relationships, be very clear that you will be powerless with the relationship with you. The Relationship with you and the relationship with others - both happen from the same space. If you feel powerless in the relationship with others, you will have the same powerlessness in the relationship with you. If you are feeling powerful and complete in the relationship with you, you will feel same power and completeness in your relationship with others.

They are not just my teachings; these four principles are THE teachings. Any human being has to listen and learn these four principles, from the moment he's born, from the moment he starts living, while living and before death! Today, I'll expand on the fourth principle 'enriching' and how this principle is will heal your relationship with you and your relationship with others and make you feel powerful in your relationship with others and relationship with you. Enriching! How can the principle of enriching be used, to make you powerful in the zone of relationships, in your relationship with you and in your relationship with others?

First, I'll expand on what is your relationship with yourself. Please understand. Just look in. The ideas you carry about 'you' - how many of you suffer a deep distrust over you, that you will not be able to raise yourself to the higher level? How many of you very deeply cognize this inside you? WHY? Please understand. This is because 'you' are not consistently and continuously enriching yourself and raising yourself to the next level! You gave up on you, you gave up on yourself! The relationship with you, by you, lacks enriching!

I tell you, if you don't continuously teach yourself these four principles, of integrity, authenticity, responsibility and enriching, not only will you give up on 'you', you will also give up on others. People who give up on themselves are very dangerous, because then you feel, 'You are anyway going to be doomed, then what is there? I'm anyway going to be doomed. then what is wrong, if I also do this? What is wrong, if I also do this?' Then, there is no limit for your falling. You will consciously see that you are having a freefall, like the Indian stock market. Listen! I tell you, the moment you give up on yourself, you give up on others, and you are dangerous to you and to the society!

Lord Sri Krishna says again and again:

uddhared atmana atmanam na atmanam avasadayet Raise yourself by yourself. If you are continuously raising yourself by yourself, you are your friend. If not, you are your enemy!

You need to feel empowered and powerful in the relationship with you and the relationship with others. Tirelessly face your inauthenticity and align yourself to responsibility – this is the only way you can build a relationship with ‘you’. Listen! Tirelessly face your inauthenticity. If you are not ready to face, who in the world do you think will face your inauthenticity? That is why everybody turns their face away from you. You continuously cry, ‘Everybody turns their face away from me, nobody loves me, nobody relates with me’. arre, there is so much of inauthenticity that even you don’t want to look at it. Then why will anybody else look at it?

Only when I was able to be completely comfortable with me, the world was comfortable with me. I tell you from my experience, when I was completely comfortable with me, even a cobra, a poisonous cobra which was lying next to me was so comfortable with me!

I was staying in South India, in the deep forests of Tamil Nadu, in a place called Karadimalai, near Perukkaranai, where the stone quarrying is done for the dieties. It really happened once. I was so comfortable with myself. I had completely completed with myself and completed with the whole cosmos. Listen! Completion with you is satori, completion with the cosmos is samadhi! So, I was sitting in samadhi with my eyes open.

And in front of me, at not even a two-feet distance, there was a big poisonous cobra, lying and resting. It was almost on my lap for more than two hours! Neither did I have the thought ‘This is cobra’, nor did cobra have the thought ‘This is a man’. When I first had the thought, ‘Oh, this is cobra, it is poisonous and can be dangerous’, when these thoughts have started slipping, I came down from samadhi. When these thoughts started oozing out of my inner space, I could see that the cobra too had the thought, ‘This is a man, he can be dangerous, he can kill me’, and it just looked up, looked at me and moved away!

When you are complete with you, the world will be complete with you. When you are incomplete with you, the world will be incomplete with you! Completion with you is satori; completion with the world is samadhi. Completion with you is prathyagmatma chaitanya jaagrata. Completion with the cosmos is the feeling experience of brahmanyam bahuputratam. Completion with you is inner awakening, completion with the whole universe is sannyas.

sannyas means, completion with the whole. You are clear with your accounts and there is no incompletion!

When you complete with you, the relationship with you starts. Please listen! Only when the relationship with you starts, can you have a vacation in your life. Until then, you may be able to book your flight tickets, pick the place of vacation, book your hotel, spa, food, girlfriend, everything, but you will never experience a real vacation, because you are carrying you, with whom you don't have a good relationship! How can you carry along someone with whom your relationship is not good, and have any vacation?

Listen! If the relationship with you is not complete, healed, and settled, you can never have a vacation in your life. You may go to various places to have a vacation, but, you can never have a vacation. You can book your golf course, your golf club, you can do everything possible, but you will just be suffering with you. You will just be struggling with yourself. Only when you have a healed relationship with you, only when you can trust you, when you can raise yourself by yourself, when you can save yourself by yourself, only then can you relax in your life!

When Buddha says His last words, 'atma deepo bhava', 'appa deepo bhava', he means raise yourself by yourself, build relationship with yourself by yourself. Don't give up on yourself!

Unfortunately, you start the struggle with you,

with the clear plan of losing. When you start the war with you, you plan it in such a way that you play a losing game, so that you will never again ever try to raise yourself by yourself. You just give up on you. You pick up deep rooted patterns and start struggling with it. First, complete the patterns which have not yet become deep rooted in you, patterns like irritation and agitation. But you start with patterns like lust, deep rooted fears, addictions. Naturally you can declare yourself as failure in a few weeks and just coil yourself into the cozy comfortable zone where you do not need to do anything to raise yourself by yourself. Am I right?

First, start completing with the deep rooted, root patterns of suffering! For this, you will have confidence over you. You will feel responsible for you. Bring deep integrity in your thinking. Start the fight in the areas where you will win. Use all your energy to realize these principles in your life, not to disprove these principles. You can prove anything or disprove anything in your life. You are the judge and you have the power. As far your life is concerned, you are the legislature, you are the executive, you are the judiciary and you are the media. You can either make something work for you or prove that it cannot work for you. You can make or break anything you want. Use all your powers; legislature, executive, judiciary and media, to prove that these principles work for you.

You can have relationship with you only when you can raise yourself by yourself. As I said, you are your own judiciary, you are your own legislature, you are your own media and you are your own executive. Am I right? You decide for you, you execute for you and you criticize you.

Listen! I'll give you an example. When you debate about a decision, you are your legislature. When you decide, you are your judiciary. When you execute that in your life, you are your executive body. When you criticize yourself, whether it goes happily or becomes a failure, when you constantly criticize yourself, you are your own media!

Don't start fighting with bigger patterns, when you begin the relationship with you. First, start completing the patterns that yet to be rooted in your bio-memory. You will have courage and confidence. First, the relationship with you will start getting built and you will have the space to listen to you. I tell you, if you have the space to listen to you, your thoughts per second (TPS) will drop drastically and you will be in such peace. There are only two possibilities, either you are in peace or in piece-piece! Either you are in peace or in piece-piece. You can bring peace to you, or be in piece-piece! If you have a master like Krishna with you, you can even conquer Duryodhana's sena!

You only have two possibilities. The first is to heal and enrich your relationship with you. Do svapoornatva - self completion, by bringing integrity with you, authenticiy with you, responsibility about you and enrich yourself!

Listen! I ask you to bring these three qualities in you, as a first priority. That does not mean that I'm asking you to do only this. You have to be doing this simultaneously with you and with others. Only then does it happen in you!

When you bring completion to you, the relationship with you starts, enriching yourself starts. If you have confidence, you can look at you, you can be with you, you are comfortable with you and you can raise yourself by yourself. Who else can be with you? Who else can look at you? Who else will be comfortable with you? I tell you, in the cosmic constitution - the first amendment is that you should be taught to be comfortable with you! A man should be comfortable with himself. You should be comfortable with you. That is the first amendment in the cosmic constitution. Freedom of speech only comes second. You have the freedom to speak with others only if you have freedom to speak with you! For this, first start completing the patterns that are yet to be rooted in your bio-memory!

I bless you all, to achieve, experience, live, express, radiate, share, explode and enrich with eternal bliss – ‘Nithyananda’! Thank you!

If you analyze your mind with integrity, you will understand that you are actually afraid of wealth. You hate wealth! That is the truth! Have the right mental set-up for wealth; that will bring wealth. I will always bless you for that!