Love is tremendous understanding
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27 March, 2012
Your relationships have become too shallow. Relationships have nothing to do with sending love notes or making his lunch. Forget about making lunch, it has nothing to do even with making love! It is something beyond making love or lunch. It is a tremendous understanding. It is not even spending time together. It has nothing to do with getting in shape and dressing well. Many men suspect you if you suddenly get into shape and start
dressing well. They say, what happened to you? Do you have a handsome new boss?
If sending a love note or making lunch is seen as a way to strengthen your love, it only shows that both of you are sick with attention-need syndrome! How long you will be writing notes, making lunch, getting into shape, and dressing well to keep up your relationships?
First, bring some common interests into your relationship. Then raise that common interest to the basic understandings of life. When the common interest becomes a basic understanding of life, a common spiritual quest, only then the true relationship starts happening. That is the only way you will have a safe, happy, blissful relationship that will last into your old age.
Let your relationship be completely ripened, strong, based on friendliness and understanding.