Don't wait for time to heal
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September 8, 2012
I want to share a basic secret: as long as you carry a certain identity, you will always feel that society is adharmic towards you.
Your logic is filled with pus. It sees only from your side. If I judge whatever is done to me by the society and see it as adharmic, my logic becomes pus.
Please understand, society is not a group of people. Society is the other person. It is not collective.
If you feel somebody as your enemy and cannot tolerate his patterns, please understand that God is giving you the opportunity to diagnose yourself, because you have exactly the same problems!
The very idea of enemy or friend is based on your perception, which itself is unstable.
Do not wait for wounds in others to be healed in course of time. Do not wait for others to heal the pain you are carrying inside you. Be proactive in healing the wounds and pains in others. Same way, be proactive in healing the wounds and pains inside you by dropping them.
If you have a problem, both of you sit together and understand it. Every interaction should create more intimacy and more trust for you in that person, and vice versa. If your every interaction with another creates more trust, you are free from identity. It is not impossible.
Please understand, what you think of as the hurt you caused to others may not be the real hurt. What they think as the hurt, is the real hurt. In the same way, what you think as the hurt others have caused you, may have not have been done consciously. Forgive them.
In the same way, you may not even know of the hurt you caused others. Ask them to forgive you. This is the science of forgiving, the science of gracefully moving ahead.
Standing up even when you feel that life and humanity do not behave dharmically to you is jeevanmukti, living enlightenment.
Poornatva Kriya Process
Poornatva Kriya is restoring completion to the different incomplete parts of you which are sitting in others.
First, make a conscious resolution: I am committing to being complete and causing completion for myself and for life. I am enriching myself to be in completion.
While doing Poornatva Kriya with others, there may be two possibilities. You may have a very strong
resistance to some person. The resistance, fear, or hatred is so strong that you cannot even think of facing that person and talking to him or her.
If that is the case, first sit in front
of the mirror and invoke that
person's presence in the mirror.
See that person sitting in the
mirror. Connect with that person
by making eye-to-eye contact
with him or her in the mirror.
Relive incidents that happened
between you and that person, and
then talk to the person in the
mirror until you experience
completion.
If you are on talking terms with the person, or you are comfortable with that person and have no major resistance in communicating with that person, talk to that person directly either in person or, if not possible, talk over the phone.
If there is no access to even a phone, then communicate through email. If there is no access to email also, then sit with the mirror and connect with that person in the mirror and do the completion process.
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