Importance Of Trust And Love

There is an information about Ramsuratkumar showing through Narayan Swami's mirror to this guy. He made that person experience the silence - he calls it as a mouna - means the pulse rate becoming zero. He would check it from this point and that point and I saw that person, that devotee, experienced mouna. You will be surprised after one day that devotee went back to the house; the wife was not in the house which the mirror showed. At that time and that day which he saw, his wife was not even in that house! The mirror showed a lie!

Understand, what that mirror showed was a lie. So that guy came back. Fortunately I was there when that guy came back again for next darshan.

Then he asked, "Neither she was in that place nor that affair was going on, it was a lie. Why did you do it? How did you do it?"

All Ramsuratkumar did was, he was laughing; that's all. That was his answer. I don't know what understanding you will have out of this. Means, he simply created the whole scene! That's the punch line! And he had one assistant to create that line. You understand? He simply created the whole thing in that mirror through Narayana Swami's help, because Narayana Swami is well known for this; he can show anything. So finally it boiled down to what? He just worked on his engram, and the information shown to him was not even a fact. It was not even a fact.

But of course, to play these kind of risky games, you need a tremendous understanding between the Master and disciple. If something cracks even in one place, what will happen? If that fellow had rushed there and suddenly seen that neither she was there nor the other person was there, he would lose complete trust

over this person, the Master and everything, and it would become a big ruckus. And when you lose trust after these kinds of scenes, you will not only never come back to this Master, you will never go to any other Master for three-four janmas - like a cat which once boils its tongue with hot milk will never go near the milk again. It is a big risk only. But he was successful. He was successful. He had an infrastructure, a dedicated disciple. In one day he put that guy into the mouna, nirvikalpa samadhi .

One beautiful thing is, when he went back and understood it was false information, he was not angry. He was so grateful, he was so grateful; he was with tears of ecstasy. "You went to any extreme to put me into this experience!"

He appreciates the risk taken by the Guru. See, otherwise anything can become irrelevant. Suddenly the whole thing can become irrelevant. And another thing: this guy also had that kind of attraction to the microcosmic bio-memory of Ramsuratkumar. So that love plays a major role. Love acts as a lubrication when microcosmic bio-memory and macrocosmic bio-memory are drilling the coconut.

One important thing: everybody behaves very intelligently till their own coconut is grilled! That is most unfortunate thing. When other coconuts are grilled, these guys have so much of consolation, love, promise, words, inspiration, lifting, elevating… only when their coconut gets drilled…

What about you guys - even for me this has happened! When my coconut was getting drilled in 1999, before 2000, even I had to go through such a thing.

See, when you do the weight-lifting, how the nerves are seen as green. When I went through that drilling, all my nerves were seen as red; that kind of a drilling! Whenever you are able to see the nerves as red, just understand that the drilling is going on; the drilling is going on. That's what happened in me. It will not be seen in green or other colour. It will be very intense pain.

Physically, these are the symptoms to find out whether the drilling is going on. Choosing to choose, deciding to decide. It's almost like this - when you are standing in the waves, the sand under your feet will be washed away, taken away. If you decide to push, you can stand. If you just slip one step, what will happen? You will just go with the wave.

During the grinding you need a love of a person who does not support your negativity that is important thing. See sometime you will get a wrong company they will give you the love and support but they will support your negative side; that is the most dangerous thing. You need somebody who will give you the love but who will constantly remind you to stand up on positive side. Stand up on positive side; stand up on the Guru's side.