worst flaws with so much clarity!

So examine the nature of your conflict. Also remember, in every relationship, there is a time to stay together and a time to move on. What kind of love do you share? Are you really, truly, surely in love? Do you relate deeply with each other, being to being? Don't look for reasons and arguments, don't intellectualise the process - simply turn the question inwards with complete honesty and trust. The answer will arise on its own. If your answer is Yes, then understand that the issues of conflict are mere ripples on the surface of your relationship. These are just situations created by the ego to counter the sense of 'no-self', of surrender, that comes with love. Work around these situations with love and care. If the answer you are hearing is No, then maybe it is time to move on. To [There is a time for holding on, and a time for moving on.] remain in a relationship where there is no true relationship of being to being is sacrilege, unfair to you both. Love, for you, may be elsewhere. Don't search for it; just be open to the possibility. In the meantime, don't let the conflict destroy the relationship, destroy you both. Nobody deserves that. Accept that this is not the person for you, and move away without resentment or bitterness. Don't destroy your own capacity for loving. To become bitter will only cause you more suffering, and destroy your faith in Love itself. And that is the most dangerous thing that can happend to anyone.