1. Unfulfillment - Lessons 4 to 5

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THE SUPREME PONTIFF OF HINDUISM BHAGAWAN SRI NITHYANANDA PARAMASHIVAM

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If we can understand that our existence should not be altered but only be experienced, our execution will become perfection. The unfulfillment, the incompletions and the yet to be achieved feeling should not be cherished in our existence because in our existence nothing more needs to be added, but in our actions there should always be so much of patience as if only these actions would save our life.

If you are feeling you' ve not achieved, or if you are feeling the unfulfillment, if you are feeling life is not enough, be very clear you are living just with memories.

You are not alive, that is why you don't feel you are living. You don't feel the fulfillment. For example: "Do not try to add years to your life, add life to your years." Bring life to your years, not years to your life. If your body is running based on the fuel of fear and greed, you'll be running with the past memories, recorded system.

Naturally, you will not tend to move your body more. One more thing, whenever you move your body with fear and greed, you feel so much of irritation. If you are living, if you are alive, you'll feel so fulfilled, you'll feel you are here for too long time.

So beautifully Nachiketa says when the senses lose their vigor, even the longest life is useless; short. �…पि सर्जीपरतं �…ल्पर �…पि सर्जीपरतं �…ल्पर �…पि सर्जीपरतं �…ल्पर api sarvaṁ jīvitam alpam eva api sarvaṁ

jīvitam alpam eva api sarvaṁ jīvitam alpam

eva.

When more and more sense objects are enjoyed with the unfulfillment, incompletion, senses become duller and duller and duller. Senses loses the vigor.

If you think you are seeking just relationships or money or some comfort or anything, when you achieve that, just see how you feel. Just twothree time, be aware when you experience what you wanted. You will understand what you are really seeking for. All of us, whether you want or not, whether you understand or not, directly or indirectly, seeking feeling of fulfillment which you lost when you started feeling individual

By the age of ten or eleven, usually the person starts feeling an individual identity. From that time only you start feeling that unfulfillment. From that moment, we are seeking only that, back.

If you feel you have everything in the outer world but still there is an unfulfillment, your breathing is not fulfilled. Important secret is always outer world follows the inner world. The first thing you need to fulfill in your life is breathing. If you fulfill your breathing, everything will be fulfilled in your life even though you have so many complications in the outer world. If you have not fulfilled your breathing, you will have a deep emptiness even if everything is fulfilled in the outer world.

Your body realizes its peak only when your kundalini is awakened and established in your system. If your kundalini is not awakened the continuous discontentment you carry the unfulfillment you carry you will not even know the reason but you will go on blaming everything and carry discontentment.

It's so unfortunate most of the human beings whether they are in the space or they are in the place they carry the envy to be like a big social leader, big political leader person with huge wealth, celebrity who is rich and famous, whatever place they go they carry the envy. Even the people who are established in the places forever even they suffer with this great punishment of discontentment.

When your kundalini is awakened first thing you will experience deep fulfillment such contentment in every dimension of your life you will see god it's enough enough its overflowing. The overflowing experience life will be tasted by your bio memory first time. Very rarely your muscle memory tastes the overflowing experience but unfortunately because it is immediately forgotten bio memory never experiences. For every human being kundalini awakening is basic need till then you will be having the deep unfulfillment discontentment in some form or other.

If you feel discontentment in money, that discontentment is alone enough, capable to teach you all the methods, to make you find all the methods to achieve money and make you achieve it.

Deep discontentment inside your being is capable of showing you the path and making you achieve the ultimate. Do not settle down for anything you think as ultimate. Ask always - what divine thinks as ultimate, let that happen. Unfortunately, so many times you settle down for what you think as ultimate.

All of you pray for this one thing from the ultimate - let me not be content, let me not feel settled till I achieve the ultimate, till the ultimate starts happening in you, because, that discontentment is powerful enough to guide you towards that ultimate.

I had a discussion with Vibhudananda puri - Mathaji Kuppammal. There was a casual conversation. She asked me - If God appears in front of you and asks what do you want what will you ask? I said - naturally, Atmasakshatkaara. That is the word I know at that time for enlightenment, Atmasakshatkaara, because that was the traditional Tamil word for enlightenment.

She said - No, you should not ask for that. She said - No. Whatever you understand as Atmasakshatkaara is not Atmasakshatkaara. So, do not use any word and limit. If you ask for Atmasakshatkaara, at that time what you remember, what you understand, Devi will say - Tathaasthu.

You will have only that and you are stuck with that. Ask - I should not rest until the ultimate, what needs to be done is done.

Think good thoughts, do good deeds, feel good. Life responds to goodness with goodness.

You have been told that you will go to hell if you accumulate sins and to heaven if you gain merits. I tell you, society simply uses these concepts to control you through fear of hell and greed of heaven. When you are caught in fear, naturally you are ready to do what society tells you. You are no longer master of yourself. You are under the control of society. There is no hell or heaven existing physically somewhere. Hell and heaven are psychological states of your mind.

When you think good thoughts, when you do good deeds, you feel good and you are in heaven. When you think evil, when you act evil, you feel evil and you are in hell. That is all there is to karma. This is the cosmic cause and-effect principle. You are what your intent is. You become what your intent is. If you create thoughts, words or actions that do not emanate from deep awareness but from a superficial layer, then you create karma that further propels you to fulfill those superficial thoughts, words or actions.

To make the child understand about Cosmic cause and effect principle.

• With which fear society controls us? With which greed society controls us? Who controls us through the concept of hell and heaven? What happens when we are caught in fear? Is hell or heaven physically existing? What is hell and heaven? What is cosmic cause and effect principle?

Hell and Heaven are psychological states of your mind

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• § Big chart paper, Sketch (or) Pen (or) Pencil

Encourage children to do this drawing as group. Spread a big chart paper, divide children into groups. All the children in the group will do drawing in the same chart with sketch pen or pencils.

We need open mind to do anything in group. We must learn to be fulfilled by seeing others being happy.

There was a beautiful garden with many trees and varieties of flowers and fruits. Three friends were walking near this garden that had a big wall climbed the wall and peeped inside. Characters: Friend 1 friend 2 friend 3

Friend 1: Oh such a beautiful garden. I will enjoy all the fruits

Friend 2: Climbed up the wall and saw the garden. Wow it was such a beautiful garden I have to tell my other friend about it, dear friend there is a beautiful garden below, come, I am going in..

Friend 3: Wow what a beautiful garden 'Let me go down and tell all the people about this beautiful paradise. I will bring them all to enjoy this garden'. An incarnation is someone who comes down to tell his fellowmen about the blissful place that he experienced.

Children can do presentations on the topic of Cosmic cause and effect.

Be cause in the matter to cause each child to powerfully choose Response over Reaction in daily life situations. Leave each child acknowledged wherever he or she is , so that they are inspired to keep moving towards response. May each child be liberated from the karma bondage and attain liberation.

Karma means action. But action can be of two types. It can either be a reaction or it can be a response. When somebody insults you and you become angry, he has made you behave the way he wanted. Now if he apologizes, your mood suddenly changes. So he is the master. You are behaving like a slave. You are a victim having no control over the situation. When somebody insults you, you are immediately reacting out of your past experiences. This reaction is karma. It is a binding force. It creates chains for you.

But a response is totally different from reaction. When someone insults you, you don't need to give in to the emotion of anger rising inside you. You can listen to what he is saying objectively without judging whether it is good or bad, right or wrong. First you listen to him without immediately reacting. Then you respond with awareness. You don't react from the past. You are now responding from the present. If the other person is right, you will thank him for pointing out something to you and making you aware of yourself. If he is wrong, you can simply witness the emotion and not react. If the statement is not true, why should you react? Let your response be like a pure reflection in a mirror with no judgment. Let it not come from the karmic baggage of the past.

Instead let it come from the freshness of the present. Anything that comes from your past experiences is going to create a karmic chain. Anything from the present liberates. You create your own karma. Karma does not create you. You are not a byproduct of your actions. You are far bigger than your actions.

An incarnation is someone who comes down to tell his fellowmen about the blissful place that he experienced. The man who descends from the Divine on planet earth to express the bliss of that divinity and to make you realize what he has experienced is an incarnation.

Incarnations as such have no karma. They have nothing to achieve, nothing to gain. If they don't have anything to enjoy why should they be in the body? They come down only for the love of humanity. Incarnations take a human body just to liberate more beings from the cycle of life and death, from the grip of karma.

• What are called as borrowed desires? What is called as our needs? In what way engraved memories affect us?
• What happens when we trust our needs? What happens when our inner space is centered on our needs? What happens when our inner space is centered on our borrowed desires?

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Cause the child to consciously choose Response and be liberated from Reaction from past karmic patterns

• § Safety scissors, Plain sheet or Chart paper, Glue, Picture book

Explain to the children, that they can cut the pictures which they like from the books and paste it in the chart paper or plain sheet and name the sheet as 'my wants book'.

Connect to the children the fact man's inherent nature is fulfillment if we understand this we can be in Bliss.

This is an illustration of a mind, filled with thoughts and being weighted down with the water of worry and emptying the mind and going beyond.

filling and emptying water packets with water and tub.

Water packets (empty and clean), Water, Tub.

Get the class together and explain the activity. Show them which object is illustrated by which topic. Mind-water packets and water worry, negative thoughts and emotions. Demonstrate how to submerge the empty packets and how full and heavy the mind gets when filled with negativity. Then squeezed it out and show how light the mind is, how empty and how able to go beyond. Have them all take turns filling and squeezing the packets and to use this in their own lives by emptying the mind.

We are easily able to fill up our minds with so many things that unnecessary and negative thoughts and worries, but of we let go of all that, if we can let go of our minds, we can be light, free and able to go on to great things.