Catch The Right Context
Catch The Right Context
Listen: if you have taken the decision of marriage due to the wrong context, divorce is not the solution. Complete with the wrong context and create the right context. If you have taken sannyas due to the wrong context, dropping sannyas is not the solution; complete with the wrong context and develop the right context.
With the wrong context, whatever you do will become wrong, because when you don't know "Why" you are
doing it. When you don't know "Why", if the "Why" is not associated with the flow of your being, you just live without a purpose. If your thinking flow is not directly connected with your being flow, you will live life without a meaning! Sometimes, life will not have purpose, but it has a meaning. The right context is required for life.
Whatever may be your problem - if you are in depression, if you are unhappy with your life, if you are unhappy with your decisions, if you are even not aware of why you decided what you decided, if you feel you are in a mess, if you are in a soup, if you are suffering - whatever may be the space with which you are suffering, feeling powerless, do Nirahara Samyama. Because, with Nirahara Samyama, the "Why" will be constantly aligned to you. The "Why" will be aligned to you! Why you do what you do will be aligned to you! If the "Why" is aligned to your being, I tell you, the whole problem will be solved. If you are in any confusion and suffering, do Nirahara Samyama.
If there are wrong reasons for your decisions, complete with those reasons; complete with those patterns. You don't need to drop your marriage or drop your sannyas or drop your job or drop your business or drop your career. Ask yourself, 'What is the wrong context? What is the wrong reason?' Complete with that context. Complete with that reason. That wrong reason may also be there because of some powerlessness. The wrong context also originates from some incompletion. Complete that incompletion, complete that powerless pattern, drop that wrong context and build the right context.
You don't need to develop anything other than the right context to regain your life. Develop the right context, you will regain your life!