Fear Of Small Things
Fear Of Small Things
First of all understand that all small fears are mere projections of the ultimate fear of death. Second, don't resist the fear in you. Just keep repeating to yourself that you are scared and go through it, that's all! You will soon find that the fear is no longer there because you saw it through. Start doing this every time you feel fear.
When you consciously work on this, you will understand that what you call fear is nothing but your response or reaction to an incident or thought. Depending on how you respond, you can claim that you did not have fear or had fear. And, with more and more awareness, you can respond towards fear without fear!
Remember one thing: No one can claim to be
fearless. One can learn to handle fear without fear, that's all. If anyone professes to be fearless, be very clear that they have
Small fears are mere projections of the ultimate fear of death.
not analyzed deeply the subject of fear and human response to it. Don't start thinking that they are superhumans and you are a lesser human being.
(A young girl speaks) Swamiji*, I remember how you made me overcome my fear of spiders! While in our discussions one day, I jumped up when I saw a spider and you laughed at me for it. You told me to meditate on the spider every time I saw one. Every time I saw one, I looked at it with awareness and concentration. Slowly I started wondering why I was scared of it after all*!
Yes. It is only a question of bringing awareness into our fears. You will then wonder what it was that caused the fear in you!
You can even sit by yourself and imagine that your fears are happening to you. In your imagination, confront them with deep awareness and calmness. If you suffer in the process of visualization, it is
Anything when lived out completely will have no effect over you. All your fears are simply fear of your fears
alright. Don't suppress it or punish it. If your body shakes with fear, let
it. Just co-operate with it. Anything when lived out completely will have no effect over you. All your fears are simply fear of your fears, that's all!
A small story:
A disciple was caught in a river one day.
He was terrified of losing his life and he shouted out to his master to save him from drowning.
The master said, 'Stand up!'
The disciple screamed out, 'How can I? I am drowning.'
The master said, 'Have I not taught you to help yourself? Now stand up!'
The disciple said, 'Master, you are preaching to me at this moment of my impending death. Why don't you just save me!'
The master persisted, 'I said, stand up.'
The disciple was enraged at the master's persistence.
He simply stood up. The water came up only to his knee!
All your fears are nothing but the fear of your fears. If you shake off your fears and allow your intelligence to surface, you will find that your fears are just shadows of objects that don't exist.